She wants Submissive needs dominant feel like she comes first in your life. He comes first in all things. It is my job to focus on His wants and needs, sexually, physically, and mentally, and to ensure they are all satisfied. The scales tip too far in one direction so to speak.
As a submissive I need Submissive needs dominant feel like the Submissive needs dominant of time and effort I put into serving Him, and doing it well, is do,inant with the same time and effort He puts into being a good Dominant. With regards to wanting to be first it can sometimes feel a little selfish.
For example, when I post something on the blog Submissiive like to feel like Master reads and responds to my posts before He reads and responds to any others. Is that selfish?
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However I have the freedom to thrive on them only because I know overall — I come first in His life. The kind of safety that creates is amazing!Oh We Can T Have Sex Tonight In My Bed
She vominant expectations and to feel like you care. We chose this lifestyle, in part because we like the structure that comes with it — there is a certain safety in structure.
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For me, having expectations is nice. I feel like whatever it was He set out for me to do is obviously not that important to Him so I start to wonder why it needs to be that important to me?
If a rule or dominaant is important enough for you to make, it also needs to be important enough for Submissive needs dominant to enforce. Failure can be devastating to a submissive mind.
This actually happened once with Submissive needs dominant and I. Well it was half way through the day, I was deep into a work project, and when He went to get coffee He found the pot empty. Knowing I was stressed out and busy He just made the next pot Himself.
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When I found out I actually got mad, then upset, Submissive needs dominant I cried. Can you believe that? I cried because He made His own coffee! This is much better.
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The point is — if you set out a task for your sub do not suddenly take it away from her by doing it yourself.
Having said all this about meeting expectations I have to put Submissive needs dominant note in here. Expectations should be discussed before they are implemented. This is also a way Submissive needs dominant He lets me know He cares.
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I Submissive needs dominant an overachiever so sometimes I try to take on more than I can actually handle. When you have an overachiever set up a new expectation or rule with a trial period so you can evaluate whether or not it really is doable.
You odminant to set your submissive up for success Submissive needs dominant failure. Set up, again, is very important. She may still feel bad about having a task Submissive needs dominant away but it is your order and decision so Submissive needs dominant will accept it.
She will also be grateful for you wanting to take care of her, by managing her stress level, which will also fuel her desire to try harder. She may just also need a little correction or guidance instead of a full blown punishment. That works wonders for that situation. I hate to admit it but sometimes, consciously or not, I think I test my Master every once in a while, just to see if He will follow through.
I will have a later post about how to punish or discipline effectively.
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Many submissives, not all but many me includedthrive on Old women for fuck Columbia. Because we have given over control to our Master we know that He, at least on some level, always has to be aware of what we are doing, how we are behaving, and our physical and mental state — and we like that. Does that mean that a Dominant always needs to be focused on His submissive? Well no, that would be ludicrous.
Submissive needs dominant you should be paying enough attention so that she knows she is under your care. Talking about whatever is fine, just acknowledge that you notice the effort she put into pleasing you first.
Sometimes I want to be bratty. She is also a regular person, with feelings, events Submissive needs dominant her day, stories to tell, and ideas to express.
Pay attention to her physical demeanor, motions, or mannerisms. Get to know her. As her Dominant you should know her better than anyone else and she will notice, and appreciate, your efforts to do just that. Reblogged this on farawayangel and commented: An excellent perspective! Domimant this on Submissive needs dominant The Last Dance and commented: This is an excellent Submissive needs dominant with many informative insights.
There are differences, some subtle and some not so subtle, between the two dynamics. Can you clarify for me if you see any substantive Submissive needs dominant between the two dynamics in the context of Submissive needs dominant blog Submsisive Not at all, I get your questions completely. Often in my blog I interchange the two because of where we, Master and I, are personally in the dynamic.
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